After an Attempt
If your loved one has attempted suicide, you play an important role in their treatment. The hospital will decide if they should be released. If you feel that your loved one is still in danger, tell treatment team dealing with the case. Some teens try to say anything it takes to get out of treatment, and try to “self help” themselves. A suicide attempt is very serious and needs to be professionally treated. Ongoing treatment must be encouraged by the family as well.
In the emergency room:
Ask direct questions to the doctor or therapist.
“How can I help my child?”
“Is there a follow up appointment that needs to be made?”
“What signs can I look for at home?”
Talk to your loved one.
“Do you feel safe to leave the hospital?”
“How is your relationship with your doctor?”
“What else can I do for you?”
At home:
Remove guns, sharp objects, and even pain medicines. Overdoses are common, even if it’s Tylenol or aspirins. Decrease the amount of alcohol in the house as well. A safety plan can be made with your therapist or doctor Tell your doctor or therapist your loved ones habits, likes and dislikes, and tell them what is going on in their life that may have “triggered” the attempt.
Encourage your loved one to communicate openly. Connections are critical in treatment and another therapist or doctor may be needed to be most effective. Don’t forget to listen to your loved one. Understand the “triggers” which may increase the stress of your loved one. Common triggers are from relationships, school, change, loss of a loved one, or a traumatic experience.
Lastly, if your loved one has alcohol or drug abuse issues, it is important to seek out a substance abuse specialist. It is very common to have a teen with multiple behaviors such as a teen who suffers from depression, and who also drinks a lot of alcohol to try and treat themselves for their disorder.
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or go the nearest hospital or emergency center, or call 911.